His worthlessness is EPIC!

After Jeremy was spotted that day, I decided to take things into my own hands. He'd been gone for nearly a month and wouldn't tell me where he was because he didn't want child support papers delivered to him. No, he wanted to lay up with his whore girlfriend and not be bothered with taking care of our son and soon to be daughter! But I wasn't having that! This was the last time he was going to cheat on me, his PREGNANT wife, and leave me for the whore! So, a few days after he was spotted, me and my friend Amanda Parks went down this road one night after it got dark outside. We rode until we found a trailer park. And there it was, the Burgundy car that he claimed was Charles'! It just so happened Jeremy and I had a mutual friend who lived in this trailer park! So I went to him and he gave me the address! On the way out, I stopped at their mailbox because I wanted to know her name! I wanted to know who this home wrecker was! I pulled out a piece of mail and low & behold the name on the envelope was AMANDA PARKS!!! She had the exact same name as my friend, the one I was with right then!! I was so shocked!! Over the next few weeks I learned that she was 30 years old and Jeremy met her at work at Walmart. She worked in the deli so she was close to him. He had been talkin to her about me and our "arguments" which he, I know, was making up stories because we did NOT argue, ever!! He just wanted to gain empathy from this woman and make her feel sorry for him. She had moved to Virginia from West Virginia after her sons father doped up her Christmas money. So, then I realized the car seat in the car that Jeremy had said was Charles' sons was in fact HER sons car seat! So, Jeremy was helping her raise her son, a child that doesn't even belong to him, but walked away from his own son in Walmart when Gavin was screaming for him! Nonetheless, I had found his address and so I called the courthouse and gave it to them. So he was served with child support papers and assault & battery papers on me and Gavin from the night he kicked Gavin in the head trying to get out of the door with an xbox! I found out that they had been to Walmart and arrested him at work for the A&B charges! He was very confused and questioned me as to where I got the address from. I said you can't run forever! And the kicker to this was: he was less than a MILE away from me!! So that's why gas wasn't used the night I went looking for him at 1am with our 15 month old son!!

Soon it was the day of our court appearance for the Assault charges. I told the judge I didn't think he did what he did on purpose. But she said it didn't matter. He should've left when I told him to and either come back at a later time or sent someone else to get his things. So he was convicted of A&B on me and Gavin! He was also put under a 'No Contact" order. Meaning we couldn't talk directly to one another and couldn't see each other. Anything with Gavin had to be done through a third party source. But of course, Jeremy didn't even bother after that!

Sometime after that, our child support date was here. At this appearance, he was ordered to pay child support as well as spousal support (alimony) in the amount of $275 a month in SS and $200 a month in child support. I was able to prove he was cheating on me since he admitted to it. He also told the judge that I wouldn't "let" him see his son. I told the judge I never said he can't see him. What I said was he is not taking my son where he's living because I don't know the people he's living with. And he had only known her for a month! I was awarded full, sole and physical custody of Gavin. Mainly due to the 'No Contact' order against Jeremy. The judge told him visitation wouldn't be discussed at a child support date. If he had a problem with visitation then he needed to go file papers for visitation. Which he didn't even bother doing! This was in January 2007.

The days passed on without a single word nor an effort from/by him to see Gavin. Nor to ask how things were going with my pregnancy. One day, I decided to text his phone. But she sent a text back telling me to leave Jeremy alone. That he didn't want anything to do with me and that I lost him because I didn't know how to take care of my man. And that they'd see me in court over the kids. So I said yeah right! He will never take me to court because he does NOT care about his kids! And I lost my husband, not because I couldn't "take care" of him but because he's a sorry asshole who cheated on his pregnant wife!! And further more, I don't "take care" of grown ass men! If anything he should've been taking care of me instead of worrying about the next slut he was going to sleep with! I said are you finally admitting that you are sleeping with my husband or continuing to lie? I blamed her just as much as him! Because what kind of woman sleeps with a married man with a pregnant wife and a 15 month old son at home?! And it's not like she didn't know about me because she did!! After thus incident, I let things go, for now! I had to concentrate on getting my baby girl here safely and soundly! My baby girl whom I had decided to name Kenadi Beatrice. Kenadi, after a little girl who was a dwarf on a discovery health show I'd watched and Beatrice after my granny that had died from brain cancer after Kaylea. Also so she'd have the same initials as Kaylea Blair!

My pregnancy was going along and very uneventful, for once! I wasn't as miserable because it was winter and I hadn't gained but ten pounds so far and I was almost eight months pregnant! I was actually enjoying my pregnancy! She kicked all the time and was very active! I had my baby shower for her on March 10, 2007. She was due in just three short weeks! And I was so very excited!! I was to have a routine checkup the next day on Monday, March 12th.

But my baby girl wouldn't wait another three weeks! She was ready to go and was coming ALOT sooner!! And her "daddy" continued to prove just how sorry he could be......

Below are pictures from my baby shower and a belly picture taken in February 2007.