Monday, December 17, 2012

Is this a nightmare?!

We we married!! We set up house in an apartment. Between the two of us, we had saved alot of money. So we bought everything we needed after a housewarming party. We were both working at a place called Techma that's no longer opened. Two weeks after our wedding, I needed to leave early for an OB/GYN appointment and when I returned, they fired me only saying that I was leaving my station and going to the bathroom too much. Ummm HELLO, I'M PREGNANT!! So I promptly applied for unemployment. Meanwhile, my new husband began talking to an ex girlfriends father whom he'd previously worked for roofing. These people were INSANE! They stalked me when I began dating him, they put me through HELL! I told him this was not a good idea as I could only see disaster coming from it! New Years Eve was here and we decided to go to my BIL to a gathering he was having. At this time I was 18 weeks along in my pregnancy. At this party, my husband decided he would quit his guaranteed job at Techma to go back to work with the man, I'll refer to as BA, roofing. Where work is not a guarantee and there's the possibility of them scheming and trying to talk Jeremy into leaving me for his ex Stephanie, there daughter he was with. A few days later after Jeremy assured me he wasn't going to leave me for her he decided that they had to go Northern Virginia and work for the weekend. I told Jeremy to call me everyday. Saturday came, no phone call. Sunday came no phone call. So I went to my moms and when I got back home he had gotten home. He was acting funny, wouldn't talk to me, didn't ask how my weekend was, offered no explanation as to why he hadn't called me all weekend. Monday morning, I awoke to find him waiting on BA to come get him for work. You see, this day I was going to the unemployment office thirty miles away and something told me not to go. But I did and turns out I wasn't required to come into the office so I headed back home. At this time, my mom was staying at my grannys house taking care of her because she had Brain Cancer. I decided to go talk to mom about Jeremy and see if she had any motherly advice for me. She told me to go home crawl into his lap and try and talk to him. So I went home. When I pulled in the driveway I noticed lights on and if he'd gone to work he would've cut them off. I sat in the car I guess preparing myself for what my heart was telling me. I went inside. I knew. I went into our bedroom and all his clothes were gone. In the living room the X-Box was gone which wasn't ours yet I was making payments on it. And there on the kitchen counter was a note, written on a piece of cardboard, that said "This marriage isn't working. I want a divorce. I'll come back for my CDs in your car." REALLY JEREMY? YOUR CDS? WHAT ABOUT YOUR BABY I'M PREGNANT WITH?! He was gone. I laid in the floor, like a child, and cried for thirty minutes. I tried making sense of all of this and I couldn't! Oh my God, I can't stay here now! I can't stay in this apartment that he and I were building for our family! So I tried gathering myself and called my mom. She came and got me and we set off to find him! No way was I letting him go without an explanation as to why he'd left me, his five months pregnant wife he'd married just five short weeks ago! I couldn't believe this was happening to me! But it doesn't hold a candle to what was coming!

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