So my mom and I loaded up and went and picked up my SIL, Bethany. We told her what happened and asked her if she knew where Jeremy was at. She said what I was thinking, he's at BAs with Stephanie. So off we went to BAs house. We sent Bethany to the door because I knew they wouldn't come to the door for me. Her sister, Sandy, came to the door and lied saying she hadn't seen him. I wasn't stupid, I knew he was in there but he was running from me! So we left. I went home with my mom as I could not go back to that apartment. I'm thinking, my world is ending! My husband has left me, five months pregnant!
A few days later on January 14, 2004, I had my twenty week ultrasound. It was a bittersweet day! This day was supposed to great! A day my husband and I would share! But instead, my mom took me and my friend Amanda came along as well. I needed all the support I could get! So we arrived and I was called back. The ultrasound tech stuck the doppler to my stomach and there, on the screen, was my baby. Turning flips, moving all around! Feeling good it seemed, the opposite of how I was feeling! The tech asked me if I wanted to know the sex and of course I said YES! <b>IT'S A GIRL!!! </b>I immediately began crying. I wanted a girl but I wanted my husband there with me as well! Not off with his EX!! Everything was great with the baby. All the measurements were perfect for 20 weeks gestation. She weighed 9 ounces at this time. Very, very tiny but perfect!! The picture belows shows her at my twenty week ultrasound! She had long legs and they were crossed! So after the ultrasound my mom took me to McDonalds to eat. I couldn't eat anything, I was so sad and depressed! Later on my appetite picked back up but I was told if I couldn't eat to drink Boost so my baby would get nutrients.
So we went back home and I began planning for my baby girl through the sadness and depression. I decided her name would be Kaylea Blair. I called my MIL who had recently moved to Florida and told her the babys sex. That would be the last time I'd speak to her for a while as she was totally and completely on Jeremys side, listening to and believing his lies! A few days later, the rumors began pouring in! The thing this family, the one Jeremy was living with, would say about me were simply horrid and complete <b>LIES!!</b> They had convinced Jeremy that I was cheating on him with my high school boyfriend, Jim. And that the baby was his not Jeremys! And let me just say, Jim was a great man! He worked, owned his own company since he was 15 and still owns it to this day! So, if there was the slightest possibility that Jim could've been my babys father, I would've chose him! But I was so madly in love with Jeremy that I could not have cheated on him, <b>EVER!!!</b> And Jeremy knew this to be true as I hadn't spent so much as an hour away from Jeremy since we'd started dating and after we were married! It was just an excuse for him to run from his responsibility! Around the end of January, I received a devastating call from Stephanies sister, Sandy, the one who lied to us. Sandy and her family had fallen out and Sandy decided to tell me the truth. And it hurt me to my core!! Everything began to sense!! So I went to her house & so began the LIES! Sandy told me that Stephanie had broken up with her boyfriend & she "wasn't going to be alone." So she came up with a plan to convince my husband that I was cheating on him and "she knew he'd believe her because he always did." Sandy also told me that the weekend he was "working" in Northern VA he was really at s hotel in Myrtle Beach, TWO stated away from me!! Which explains why I didn't get a phone call the whole weekend! She also gave me the phone number to the hotel they were staying in at the beach. So when I left I called the hotel. Stephs mama, who was named Roxanne but went by Rocky, answered the phone. She told me Jeremy wanted NOTHING to do with me & he was in the background saying "leave me alone, that baby isn't mine" And get this, "I've contacted a lawyer about my CDS and I'm going to charge you with larceny" WTF, REALLY? YOUR CDS!!?? I said we're married you fucking IDIOT!! (excuse my language!) What's mine is yours and what's yours is mine!! And what about OUR BABY GIRL?!! His answer was "she's not mine!" These crazy people were famous for threatening the law on you. One time I passed Stephanie on a road driving and twenty minutes later her crazy mama, Rocky was calling me telling me she was going to have me charged with harassment because "I ran Stephanie out of the road with her grandbabys in the car!" Which I DID NOT DO THAT! Anyway, during that hotel call she threatened me with harassment. Really? For calling MY HUSBAND?! These people were horrible! So after I hung up, I was devastated!
But still, the worst was yet to come!!
Toni, I am so sorry you had to go through all of this. HUGS!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Gale! It was horrible! The worst is yet to come!
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