Less than a week after I let Jeremy come back home, my feelings began to change. He had been gone for nearly eight months and I'd gotten used to doing everything in my own. During this eight months, me and my friend Amanda had began going out some on the weekends. We especially loved to go listen to a good friends band play. It was a Saturday night and the band was playing at a nearby bar. It was to be their final show and I didn't want to miss it. Jeremy didn't want me to go but ultimately I decided I didn't care what he wanted! I went anyway!
That night, everyone kept asking me why I let him come back home. And I couldn't think of any reason why I had! Which made me realize, maybe I didn't want him there after all that maybe the whole reason I let him come back was to prove to his whore, Amanda, that she was no different than me! That he would leave her at any given time as well. I had proven that point so maybe it was time to bow out, once and for all! I though maybe I could have my happy family back. But this time was different than the others for one reason: GAVIN! When Jeremy left me this time, he left our son too! He chose a woman he'd only known for a month over our son. I had to watch my 15 month old son screaming for his daddy the night he left. I had to watch Gavin crying for his daddy the night I caught him with Amanda in Walmart, as he walked right by Gavin like he didn't know him! Screw me over if you want but don't mess with my kids! He'd hurt our son and to me, that was the deal breaker! They say "forgive and forget" but without one the other is completely void! And it was clear, I couldn't forgive nor forget that he had done this to us! I say just Gavin because I was pregnant with Kenadi when Jeremy left. I know he left her too but she didn't witness it therefore she is completely unaffected by this happening. Gavin wasn't unaffected. Though, in terms of long term affects, of course now he doesn't remember it happening, which is good, I suppose. But it doesn't stop him from asking me now why doesn't his daddy have anything to do with him. I feel as though Kenadi doesn't even have a daddy as he's never actively participated in her life!
Anyway, when I got home from my night out that Saturday, Jeremy was asleep on the couch. I tried waking him up to no avail. So, I went to bed. The next day, I told him he had to go. I told him I'd made a huge mistake letting him come back because too much time had passed and I'd been burned by him one too many times.
Little did I know, he'd already made his plans to go back to Amanda. She came and picked him up. The next day, I looked my cell phone bill up online and seen where he'd spent all night Saturday, while I was gone, talking to Amanda on my phone! After this happened, we didn't speak for a couple weeks. I still hadn't gone back to work since I had had Kenadi. The job I had when I went out on maternity leave, didn't hold my job. Instead, my boss offered me another position in which I'd make ALOT less than I did before. I wouldn't have been able to live off the job and raise two babies, whom were both still in diapers at this time. So, I had to find a new job. At this time, I had gotten what was called "Emergency Assistance"from my local social services. They had paid all my bills up until August 2007. So, I hit the trail looking for a job because the time was coming when I was going to have to start paying my bills again.
Walmart called me at the last minute and I was hired to work in the jewelry department same as when I lived in Farmville.
Things seemed to be back on track for me until December 2007 when, unbeknownst to me, a psycho walked into my life. And things took a turn for the worse........
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